How DBT Group Therapy Helps Adults Manage Emotions and Improve Relationships
- Shannon Heers

- Dec 29, 2025
- 6 min read

Many adults struggle with emotions that feel overwhelming. You may find yourself caught in cycles of frustration, sadness, or anxiety, unsure how to calm down once emotions take over. At the same time, relationships can feel complicated and difficult to navigate. Communication breaks down. Conflicts escalate quickly. Misunderstandings leave you feeling isolated.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy, or DBT, offers tools that can help. In DBT group therapy, adults learn practical skills to regulate emotions and build healthier, more satisfying relationships. These two areas, Emotion Regulation and Interpersonal Relationships, are at the heart of living with greater balance and connection.
Understanding DBT Group Therapy
DBT was originally developed for people who experienced intense emotions and found it hard to cope. Over time, research has shown that the skills taught in DBT help a wide range of adults, from those managing stress and anxiety to those wanting stronger connections in their personal lives.
DBT group therapy is a structured, skills-based environment where participants learn and practice together. Instead of focusing only on talking about problems, the group emphasizes tools you can apply immediately in your daily life. This practical, hands-on approach helps adults move from feeling stuck to feeling empowered.
Why Emotions Can Feel So Overwhelming
For many adults, emotions seem to come out of nowhere and take control. One moment you feel calm, and the next you feel overwhelmed with anger, sadness, or fear. These experiences can leave you exhausted, ashamed, or questioning why your reactions feel so intense compared to others.
There are many reasons emotions may feel hard to manage. Past experiences, stress, and even the way your brain processes feelings can all play a role. Without strategies to slow down and respond differently, emotions can snowball until they dictate how you act and interact with others.
The Emotion Regulation Module of DBT
The Emotion Regulation module of DBT teaches adults how to understand, name, and manage emotions in healthier ways. In group therapy, you begin by learning how emotions work and why they show up the way they do. With practice, you start to notice patterns in your emotional experiences and identify what triggers them.
One key part of Emotion Regulation is increasing emotional awareness. Instead of being swept away by feelings, you learn to pause, recognize what you are experiencing, and understand what your body and mind are communicating. This awareness gives you the ability to choose how to respond rather than reacting on autopilot.
Another essential part of Emotion Regulation is reducing emotional vulnerability. This involves taking care of your body, building positive experiences, and finding ways to cope with stress before it escalates. When you nurture yourself physically and emotionally, you create a foundation for more balanced emotional responses.
Through DBT group therapy, you also practice strategies for managing intense emotions in the moment. These skills allow you to calm your body and mind so that you can return to a place of clarity and strength. Over time, adults find that these tools not only reduce emotional overwhelm but also create space for more joy and peace in their lives.
Why Relationships Can Feel Difficult
Relationships are an important part of life, yet they are often a source of stress. Many adults struggle with communication, conflict, and feeling understood. Emotions may flare during arguments, or needs may go unspoken until they lead to resentment. In some cases, you might even avoid relationships altogether because they feel too overwhelming.
When relationships are challenging, it is easy to fall into patterns of people-pleasing, withdrawing, or escalating conflict. These patterns can leave you feeling disconnected and frustrated, even when you want closeness and understanding. Without effective strategies, relationships may remain stuck in cycles that are painful for everyone involved.
The Interpersonal Relationships Module of DBT
The Interpersonal Relationships module of DBT provides skills to navigate relationships with greater confidence and balance. In DBT group therapy, adults learn how to communicate more clearly, express needs, and set boundaries while maintaining respect for themselves and others.
One of the core lessons is how to ask for what you need in a way that increases the likelihood of being heard and understood. Many adults either avoid expressing needs or express them in ways that lead to conflict. DBT teaches a middle path of assertive, respectful communication that strengthens rather than weakens relationships.
Another focus is on setting healthy boundaries. Many adults with intense emotions struggle with saying no or with standing up for themselves in relationships. In DBT group therapy, you learn how to honor your limits while still maintaining connection. This helps reduce resentment and increases trust with others.
You also practice skills for maintaining self-respect in interactions. This means being able to speak up without losing sight of your own values or worth. Over time, these strategies create more satisfying, stable, and mutually supportive relationships.
The Benefits of Learning in a Group
Practicing Emotion Regulation and Interpersonal Relationships skills in a group setting is especially powerful. Group therapy provides opportunities to role-play, share experiences, and receive feedback in a safe, supportive environment. Instead of feeling alone in your struggles, you discover that others face similar challenges.
Hearing how other group members apply skills in their own lives can inspire you and give you new perspectives. Practicing together also makes it easier to use these tools in real-life situations. The accountability of group therapy helps you stay consistent, while the encouragement from peers builds confidence in your progress.
Real-Life Benefits of DBT Group Therapy
Adults who participate in DBT group therapy often report feeling calmer, more balanced, and more capable of handling life’s challenges. By practicing Emotion Regulation skills, they find themselves less overwhelmed by stress and better able to recover from setbacks. They notice they can respond thoughtfully rather than reacting impulsively, which brings a sense of control and stability.
In relationships, DBT skills create opportunities for deeper connection. Adults who once struggled with conflict or felt unheard begin to express themselves more clearly. They notice that communication improves and that boundaries no longer feel like barriers but rather pathways to healthier, more respectful relationships.
These changes do not happen overnight, but with practice, they add up to meaningful transformation. Many adults describe DBT group therapy as the turning point that allowed them to move from surviving to truly thriving.
Why Choose DBT Group Therapy for Adults
DBT group therapy is more than learning skills. It is about creating a life that feels calmer, more balanced, and more connected. By focusing on Emotion Regulation and Interpersonal Relationships, adults gain tools that impact every area of life, from work to family to friendships.
At our counseling practice, we offer a DBT Group for Calm and Balance designed to support adults who want these changes. Our experienced facilitators provide a compassionate, structured space where you can learn, practice, and grow. The group setting offers connection and encouragement while the DBT skills provide a roadmap to lasting change.
If you are ready to feel more in control of your emotions and more confident in your relationships, DBT group therapy may be the next step for you.
How We Can Help
Living with overwhelming emotions or difficult relationships can feel discouraging, but you do not have to face these challenges alone. With DBT group therapy, you can gain the tools, confidence, and support you need to build a more balanced and connected life.
Schedule a free consultation today to learn more about our DBT Group for Calm and Balance. Together, we can help you move toward a future where emotions feel manageable, relationships feel supportive, and you feel grounded and at peace.

Author Biography
Shannon Heers is a psychotherapist, approved clinical supervisor with Firelight Supervision, guest blogger, and the owner of a group psychotherapy practice in the Denver area. Shannon helps adults in professional careers manage anxiety, depression, work-life balance, and grief and loss. Follow Catalyss Counseling on LinkedIn, Facebook and Instagram.
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